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		<title>India Today &#8212; New Show &#8216;n Tell</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[India&#8230;Now&#8230;Today &#60;&#60;&#60;Click on Link&#62;&#62;&#62; Dear Friends: The above link is a collection of my new photos I brought back from India. I hope you have time to browse over the pictures and read the captions and descriptions I added to each photo. This is my newest India show &#8216;n tell. It&#8217;s incomplete and perhaps a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=576&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Dear Friends:</p>
<p>The above link is a collection of my new photos I brought back from India. I hope you have time to browse over the pictures and read the captions and descriptions I added to each photo. This is my newest India show &#8216;n tell. It&#8217;s incomplete and perhaps a little personal in nature. But my blog, as you know, has always been personal in nature.</p>
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<p>I&#8217;m now back in New York, U.S. after a two-month-long trip. It was a rewarding experience.</p>
<p>Some of you &#8212; especially those of you who are regular readers of my blog &#8212; might know that during the trip from early December to early February, I have published a double-CD album of twenty Tagore songs entitled <em>&#8220;Aro Ektu Bosho&#8221;</em> (Stay a Little Longer) &#8212; Srishti Cassette, Calcutta, January 2012. If you are interested to get a copy here in the U.S., please contact me. I have posted a few promotional songs off the CD at this free link at <strong><a title="Partha Banerjee's new Tagore songs" href="http://soundcloud.com/partha-banerjee-nyc" target="_blank">http://soundcloud.com/partha-banerjee-nyc</a> </strong>. Happily, so far, the link got over 1100 hits.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m now planning to perform with my recorded songs for promotional and/or recreational purposes. In India, I had three such performances where I sang and also talked about the subjects of global cultural erosion and kitsch. You can visit this link for one such talk I presented at New Delhi&#8217;s Jamia Milia Islamia University. Click on <strong><a title="Tagore, Culture and Kitsch" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KRwc27Ns5lM" target="_blank">Tagore, Culture and Kitsch</a></strong>. My musical performances almost always have accompanying talks.</p>
<p>In India, I have also given talks on subjects such as global economy, democracy, human rights, media, immigration and yes, science too (I was a biologist in my past life, in case you didn&#8217;t know). Honestly, it was quite exhausting to travel across India to present the talks; at one point, I fell sick. Still, at the end of the day, I felt happy that I was able to interact with so many Indians &#8212; young and old alike &#8212; who were willing to hear about the topics, in conversational forums.</p>
<p>Two publishers &#8212; one in New Delhi and the other in Calcutta &#8212; also expressed interest to publish my original articles and translations. Now it&#8217;s time for me to find the time to meet their expectations.</p>
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<p>I have also resumed working at my regular workplace as an educational program developer and teacher. Starting mid-April, I begin teaching our eight-month-long interactive labor workshops out in Long Island, which is a major part of my job.</p>
<p>Thanks for your time to read my little update. I hope to stay in touch with you and work together in the coming days. I promise to write much more about my experience on this blog when I catch a little breath and settle down. I hope you come back to read my blog, frequently.</p>
<p>Meanwhile, please visit my <a title="India...Now...Today" href="https://picasaweb.google.com/105312270681587455034/IndiaNowToday" target="_blank"><strong>New India Show &#8216;n Tell</strong></a>. Let me know what you think.</p>
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<p><strong>Sincerely Writing,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Partha</strong></p>
<p>Brooklyn, New York</p>
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		<title>Tracking Tagore in Trance</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, my Tagore recording began, the esraj and flute and sitar and piano churned out the great poet&#8217;s music from paradise, and I couldn&#8217;t hold back my tears in front of some unknown people sitting in the studio. Embarrassing! Geez! I said. Then I thought, heck, so what, I&#8217;m not doing anything wrong! In fact, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=551&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><strong>So, my Tagore recording began, the esraj and flute and sitar and piano churned out the great poet&#8217;s music from paradise, and I couldn&#8217;t hold back my tears in front of some unknown people sitting in the studio.</strong></p>
<p>Embarrassing! Geez! I said. Then I thought, heck, so what, I&#8217;m not doing anything wrong! In fact, I&#8217;m doing it just right. This is exactly how it should be. Anything else would be disrespectful and phony.</p>
<p>Yeah. But that was later. Early in the morning, when it was quite unusually cold and foggy, I arrived right on time at the doorstep of the North Kolkata studio &#8212; only to find out that the local cable company already had dug a long trench off the concrete alley to repair some faulty fixtures underground; they said it would take at least a week to finish the work and cover up the trenches. Dirt and debris piled up on the two sides of the trench, and you&#8217;d have to walk like a rope walker over and along the hill, balancing yourself every step of the way to reach your destination.</p>
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<p>Which meant that the musicians and their instruments would have to walk the entire length of the alley &#8212; about a quarter mile off the main road &#8212; to enter the studio; given some of these musicians and their instruments are very expensive and famous (and heavy too), they would not like it a lot. Great! I&#8217;m definitely in Kolkata now, it seemed.</p>
<p>My friend, brother and director of the entire recording project <a title="Musician Alak Roychoudhury" href="www.calcuttayellowpages.com/adver/104911.html" target="_blank">Alak Roychoudhury</a> took me inside Jupiter Studio &#8212; a few ground-floor rooms remodeled and insulated out of an old-fashioned, half-dilapidated house on Beniatola Street &#8212; and to our surprise, we found out that the lead composer of my music accompaniment was already waiting, along with his chief hands. Astonishing! (And they always complained that Kolkata was sloppy and Bengalis didn&#8217;t know professionalism!)</p>
<p><a title="Rahul Chatterjee Sitar YouTube" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ul0KxE1VLjQ" target="_blank">Rahul Chatterjee</a> &#8212; the young lead composer and an eminent sitar player &#8212; and I had a phone conversation a couple of nights before on some of the ideas I had for my Tagore singing. I found his thoughts on arranging Tagore music to be overlapping with mine. I was brimming with confidence; I was settled down with reassurance.</p>
<p>In a few minutes, defying Kolkata&#8217;s infamous lack of punctuality, all the musicians showed up right on time: the keyboard, tabla, percussion, sarod, and the flutist who was probably a teeanger (at least he looked like one &#8212; the second day, another noted flutist took his place). Alak whispered to me that the kid was now one of the top three flutists even in this culturally light-years-ahead city where you could find at least one famous musician almost on every other block. The tabla and percussion players, they said, were regular accompaniments to celebrity singers like Swagata Lakshmi Dasgupta and Ajoy Chakraborty. The keyboard player frequently worked on major TV shows.</p>
<p>Now, I was feeling a little bit&#8230;like&#8230;you know&#8230;nervous.</p>
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<p>And then, the bespectacled, young, modest, I-mean-business-looking owner of the studio and digital sound-recordist-cum-editor Mintoo Babu took his seat at the console, and after a small message of greetings to me, Alak and the group, turned on his complex equipment.</p>
<p>Click&#8230;tick&#8230;tock&#8230;Click&#8230;tick&#8230;tock&#8230;the 3&#215;3-<em>Dadra</em>&#8230;at a 148-clocked-speed&#8230;the electronic click to keep the perfection rhythm set off, the humble esraj player put his head down, and pulled his wow-bow across the strings; then, Rahul Chatterjee immediately assumed his commanding position on the floor of the studio, and Alak flipped the pages of his <em>Swara-Bitaan</em> (Tagore&#8217;s own musical scores) because he would initially dub the songs along with the tracking of the arranged accompaniment. It was decided that I&#8217;d rest my voice for the actual dubbing when the tracking would be all done. (That was in itself celebrity status for me).</p>
<p>It was decided that the first song would be Tagore&#8217;s <em>&#8220;Amar je gaan tomar parash pabe&#8230;&#8221;</em> (the song of mine that touches you). Alak, Rahul and I pre-selected twenty Tagore songs, out of which four would be <em>ad lib</em>. The rest were more structured based on various talas (beats): three-three-beat <em>Dadra</em>, four-four-beat <em>Kerwa</em>, three-four-beat <em>Tewra</em>, or six-six-beat <em>Sashthi</em>. You could of course exercise a small latitude of poetic freedom even in his more structured songs (and eek out a few unscored voice modulations), according to liberal exponents like the famous maestro Debabrata Biswas&#8230;or&#8230;me; however, there is major controversy and debate on that. Ask anyone in this Tagore-loving city.</p>
<p>Anyway&#8230;</p>
<p>So, here it is one more time. Now, my Tagore recording really began, the esraj and flute and sitar and piano churned out the great poet&#8217;s music from paradise, and I couldn&#8217;t hold back my tears in front of some unknown people sitting in the studio.</p>
<p>I have heard and sung these songs many times&#8230;practically since my childhood. But sitting here in this studio, with these fantastic musicians going out of their way to arrange and play the accompaniment for &#8230;ME (!)&#8230; so that I could sing my best possible rendition of Tagore music&#8230;and that it would be a lifetime privilege for someone like me who lives twelve thousand miles away from this city of art, music, culture, society and friends&#8230;who would die for a reason to die for art, music, culture, society and friends&#8230;but there&#8217;s no reason to do it over there&#8230;at least not for Tagore or Bangla language&#8230;and therefore, now it&#8217;s a pressure-cooker emotion ready to &#8220;explode&#8221; any time&#8230;</p>
<p>So, it &#8220;exploded.&#8221; But it was restrained, subdued, subtle. Because we had already been simmered, cooked and softened in Tagore. We could not be wild, extravagant and loud. We were not Bollywood or Hollywood. We were civilized and progressive and humane. We refuse kitsch. We embrace the soul.</p>
<p>Tears flew freely. I took a dip in that sacred river of emotion.</p>
<p>And then, I was ready to interpret and express the celestial music and message of Tagore&#8230;musically&#8230;with love&#8230;with great care&#8230;with respect&#8230;and passion.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s my first song&#8230;I hope it touches you&#8230;</p>
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<p>Click&#8230;tick&#8230;tock&#8230;Click&#8230;tick&#8230;tock&#8230;there begins a deep, voluminous, heart-wrenching orchestra with the deep tabla and soft percussion&#8230;the vibrant vibe off the keyboard&#8230;the essential chord off the esraj&#8230;rising up and above from the studio floor&#8230;filling up the air&#8230;completely overwhelming mysenses&#8230;</p>
<p>Oh God&#8230;how can I thank you for this moment!</p>
<p><strong>Sincerely Writing,</strong></p>
<p>Partha</p>
<p>(Now in Kolkata &#8212; the city of Tagore, Vivekananda, Sister Nivedita, Ram Mohan Ray, Derozio and Satyajit Ray)</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[[I dedicate this post to the legendary liberation struggle of Bangladesh and the unsung, victorious freedom fighters.] I wrote: &#8220;Kolkata makes loves to me. Oh God, how can I thank you for bringing me back to her?&#8221; (In case you don&#8217;t know, Kolkata is Calcutta &#8212; the media-distorted British-raped &#8220;City of Joy.&#8221; We&#8217;ll slowly talk [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=542&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_543" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://onefinalblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/img_1118.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-543" title="IMG_1118" src="http://onefinalblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/img_1118.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">That&#039;s when I fell in love with her...Oh God...was it sweet!</p></div>
<p><em>[I dedicate this post to the legendary liberation struggle of Bangladesh and the unsung, victorious freedom fighters.]</p>
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<p><strong>I wrote: &#8220;Kolkata makes loves to me. Oh God, how can I thank you for bringing me back to her?&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>(In case you don&#8217;t know, Kolkata is Calcutta &#8212; the media-distorted British-raped &#8220;City of Joy.&#8221; We&#8217;ll slowly talk about the violence and abuse.)</p>
<p>Obviously, Calcuttans &#8212; of my type &#8212; were fascinated with my fascination. Praises poured in. Enchanting&#8230;I said to myself&#8230;not just the idea of making love to her&#8230;but also the idea that other beautiful people like me loved the idea of making love to her&#8230;and that too, without ever getting out of your mind&#8230;and your dreams!</p>
<p>Inspired by admiration and adulation from fellow-lovers, I went on and wrote:</p>
<p>&#8220;Food, music, film, dance, fun, literature, politics, science, arts and what not&#8230;in spite of all the problems and stupid politicians and promoters today, it&#8217;s just incredible. And I&#8217;m not even talking about her GLORIOUS history.&#8221;</p>
<p>Again, confetti and claps&#8230;a whole bunch of them. This lovemaking is sure catching on&#8230;and catching on fire. I knew it would!</p>
<div id="attachment_544" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://onefinalblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/img_1024.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-544" title="IMG_1024" src="http://onefinalblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/img_1024.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The mezzanine room mother left behind...</p></div>
<p>And then, a sister, who left Bombay and Delhi to live in this much-maligned city, wrote:</p>
<p>(<em>By the way, this travelogue is not about comparing anything with anything&#8230;in case you think I&#8217;m being biased against your place. I may be biased for my place, but I&#8217;m definitely not biased against yours. Or, for that matter, against my second first city New York.</em>)</p>
<p>&#8220;For me, Kolkata is like my mother, whom, despite all her weaknesses and ailments I love and care for&#8230;.no matter where I stay, live or what I do, the umbilical connect will always be there.&#8221;</p>
<p>Now, that&#8217;s also very true. She pulled my ear &#8212; just like one of the many middle-school teachers who did it to me many times over many years &#8212; and put it in perspective. Of course, she is right! And I am right too! Now, how can I resolve this dilemma?</p>
<p><strong>Is Kolkata my mother&#8230;or is she &#8220;Je t&#8217;aime <em>mon amie</em>?&#8221;&#8230;Like&#8230;<em>&#8220;ami tomay eto bhalobashi, sakhi</em>&#8230;&#8221;<br />
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<p>(By this time, other Calcuttans &#8212; probably a few of my detractors included &#8212; started throwing confetti and claps the sister&#8217;s way. Hey, I thought, I need to do something to fix it &#8212; now &#8212; or she&#8217;s gonna steal the show. And yet, I cannot ever lie. This is way too delicate and honest to be cunning and dishonest about.)</p>
<p>Then, I came up with this brilliant reflection. I wrote:</p>
<p>&#8220;So wonderful, sister.&#8221; [Note: while doing an important debate, in front of an eager audience, you always want to compliment the opposition -- that's a little political trick I learned years ago...here in Calcutta; your sentimental (Calcuttan-type) detractors now pay attention to you too. Who knows: you now might get a few flying kisses.]</p>
<p>So, I wrote:</p>
<p>&#8220;Bengal is my mother. Bangladesh is my mother. It doesn&#8217;t matter where I live now. I&#8217;ve written about it in the memoir I&#8217;m putting together. My mother is an important part of it. Kolkata, on one hand, I feel more like, was my mother when I was little, and on the other hand, it became like my first girlfriend when I became a teenager. It took on various forms and shapes at different stages of my life.&#8221;</p>
<p>[Fantastic! Ain't it? What a brilliant observation...and that too...one hundred and ten percent genuine...like Tagore...cross my heart.]</p>
<div id="attachment_545" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://onefinalblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/img_0870.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-545" title="IMG_0870" src="http://onefinalblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/img_0870.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The legendary Kolkata Book Fair is coming up...and I shall be there...</p></div>
<p>To draw in accolades from supporters and opposition alike, I explained:</p>
<p>&#8220;So, when I say Kolkata makes love to me, I think about the teeanger-time Kolkata when my senses started to bloom like a bunch of tuberose, with its radiating beauty and fragrance. It comes back every time I return here. That&#8217;s an incredible feeling: it wraps me around and won&#8217;t let me go.&#8221;</p>
<p>[By this time, I observed I managed to steal the limelight away from the opposition...and into my direction. I knew I was on a roll.]</p>
<p>Charged and cheered up, I announced:</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;and then I go back to my old mezzanine flat in old North Calcutta where my mother first walked me to school, and where I returned one day in second grade with lit-up eyes to tell Ma I stood first in class, and she was waiting for me standing in that little two-feet wide balcony &#8212; I feel like I&#8217;ve come back to my mother again. This is indescribable. This is pure spiritual experience.&#8221;</p>
<p>End of debate. Humble, sweet victory&#8230;and I knew it. My opposition said something good too in her closing remarks:</p>
<p>&#8220;Yes…Kolkata, Bengal, Bangladesh – same speak. Just as the love for one’s mother is unconditional, so too, my love for the place…I accept her as she is&#8230;.she beckons; she attends to you with all the love and care possible, in the humblest of ways…and when it’s time to bid her goodbye, her memories persist and fill the air with a scent that keep your senses going till the very end….I can identify with your feelings &#8211; it&#8217;s about a strong sense of belonging..indescribable, indeed!&#8221;</p>
<p>In a debate, and that too of this sort, you don&#8217;t want to show your emotions too much &#8212; in front of the audience. So, I didn&#8217;t do it. Did I weep and tremble later? Well&#8230;that&#8217;s a secret I would not divulge here. You can privately call me to find out.</p>
<p>I can only say to you this much: this is the city and this is the joy&#8230;for me (as opposed to some junk Kiplingers or later rapists).</p>
<p>Come along with me to know more about the smiles and tears and fights and fears and poetry and prose and jasmine, tuberose&#8230;that Kolkata is to offer to the entire world&#8230;even today&#8230;even after so much violence and hurt!</p>
<p>Kolkata makes love to me. It&#8217;s pure bliss. It&#8217;s spiritual. It&#8217;s like taking a long, relaxing dip in Mother Ganges. You emerge clean.</p>
<p>Take a long, relaxing dip in Kolkata.</p>
<p><strong>Sincerely Yours,</strong></p>
<p>Partha Banerjee</p>
<p>(Living in Kolkata now)</p>
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		<title>India Show &#8216;n Tell: Like It or Not&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[First week in India and here&#8217;s my newest show &#8216;n tell. I&#8217;m going to show you some photos and suggest a short description for each. I invite you to take a close look at them, and come up with your own &#8220;tell.&#8221; Or, you can just go with my take on them. I am still [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=519&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>First week in India and here&#8217;s my newest show &#8216;n tell.</strong> I&#8217;m going to show you some photos and suggest a short description for each. I invite you to take a close look at them, and come up with your own &#8220;tell.&#8221; Or, you can just go with my take on them.</p>
<p>I am still not completely out of the massive jetlag; it happens when you fly from one side of the globe to the other in a relatively short time. Your body takes time to recover from the silent trauma and adjust to the local clock. It normally takes about a week to completely get out of it. For me, it&#8217;s been five days, and my body clock is slowly realizing that 1 A.M. is actually 1 A.M. India time and not 2.30 P.M. New York Time. The older you are, your stupid body clock takes longer to adjust to reality.</p>
<p>Therefore, I&#8217;m not in the greatest state of mind to write something long. Yet, I also feel that unless I write about things I&#8217;ve already noticed in my first week in India &#8212; however briefly &#8212; I may not remember them all. More importantly, considering the unbelievable, ever-shifting mosaic of events one can easily encounter here on a daily basis, more pictures will quickly show up taking over the older ones. So, let me put something together to show you what I&#8217;ve gone through in five days around here.</p>
<p>I leave it up to you to decide if these observations are worth anything. Please write your comments freely, would you?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m leaving for India. Are you interested? A few days ago, I wrote the above question as my Facebook status update. Happily, a sizable number of people &#8212; both longtime friends and new friends (and some relatives) wrote back warmly and positively. They all said they were interested. About twenty people either &#8220;liked&#8221; my question, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=511&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><strong>I&#8217;m leaving for India. Are you interested?</strong></p>
<p>A few days ago, I wrote the above question as my Facebook status update. Happily, a sizable number of people &#8212; both longtime friends and new friends (and some relatives) wrote back warmly and positively. They all said they were interested.</p>
<p>About twenty people either &#8220;liked&#8221; my question, or wrote something in response. If you know how Facebook status updates work, it&#8217;s ever-fleeting: it doesn&#8217;t stay for too long on a regular Facebook user&#8217;s home page. Other status updates come up from other friends, or you post a new update, and they all scroll down the home page one by one, taking over and pushing the old update into oblivion. Life&#8217;s new scenarios come forward, and old stories quickly become just that&#8230;old stories.</p>
<p>What many Facebook regulars do these days is that they repost their old status updates that they consider to be important or noteworthy. Then, people who you wanted to draw attention from, and who had missed it the first time, would now have a chance to chance upon it, and comment to satisfy your yearning, or some say, ego.</p>
<p>So, following that state-of-the-art new media conversational process, indeed those twenty first-installment friends and their gratifying responses satisfied me. Now, reader of my blog, if you are not on my Facebook, I couldn&#8217;t give out the names of those responders for privacy&#8217;s sake; and I sincerely invite you to join my now-wow-list of three-thousand-plus friends. Meanwhile, I&#8217;m sharing here *some of the responses* I received on that thread, without ID-disclosing the responders.</p>
<p>Response #1. &#8220;Yeah&#8230;. Am eagerly awaiting your arrival&#8230;&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Response #2. &#8220;In a free ride? Yes!!!&#8221; (she&#8217;s from Australia: their sense of prepositions is kinda outbackish <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Response #3. &#8220;Terribly so.&#8221; (I&#8217;m sure she meant well <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  a kind-hearted person, I know)</p>
<p>Response #4. &#8212; Here&#8217;s a good one: &#8220;What if all your 3179 friends show interest?&#8221; (I&#8217;d be overjoyed if they did <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Response #5 &#8212; &#8220;This side of the Suez Canal, we are all waiting&#8230;:) &#8221; &#8212; I know this person. Goodhearted, kind and warm and all, but she&#8217;s always been poor in Geography. She got mixed up between India and Egypt <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>[and so on...]</p>
<p>Then, after a while, a different response came in. My friend Bill wrote:</p>
<p>&#8220;In the past, I had no great interest in seeing India, probably because I coiuld not separate from all the movie images of a British-tainted India. But you have shown me a different perspective, and would be VERY interesting to see it through those eyes, though I doubt the Indian office of tourism would be thrilled. However, the timing is not good for a trip. But I hope yours is fufilling, personally and professionally.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Very insightful, indeed! Let&#8217;s see what and how many elements of interest can we find in Bill&#8217;s insightful comment. (By the way, I hope I&#8217;m not putting my good friend Bill on the spot. I&#8217;m just using his thoughts as a boiler plate, so to speak, to cook up some more thoughts that immediately come to my mind, whenever I see such comments; and I do it over and over again with high appreciation.)</p>
<p>Element One. &#8212; &#8220;In the past, I had no great interest in seeing India.&#8221; &#8212; Okay, no problem. Easy to understand. But why not?</p>
<p>Bill immediately explains it.</p>
<p>Element Two. &#8212; &#8220;probably because I coiuld not separate from all the movie images of a British-tainted India.&#8221; &#8212; So, even good friends like Bill who keep an open mind and want to learn about other civilizations and societies, in this case outside of the U.S., have in their minds deeply ingrained, and probably fake, twisted and distorted, negative images of India courtesy mainstream movies. Jungle Book, Gunga Din, and the other Rudyard Kipling genre movies and novels have always done a great job to keep the Western audience misinformed about India and her people. Then, much later, Indiana Jones movies (Lost Ark, etc.) have done it even better. And, finally, who can forget about the modern-marvel-misinformation of City of Joy, Slumdog Millionaire or an Oscar movie I personally worked in &#8212; Born Into Brothels?</p>
<p>Element Three. &#8212; &#8220;But you have shown me a different perspective.&#8221; Aww, thanks, bro. Only if you could rub that onto my Indian would-be-rich-and-famous friends who would perhaps have a totally different perspective about your perspective about my perspective. (Now&#8230;read it one more time&#8230;if you please <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Element Four. &#8212; &#8220;would be VERY interesting to see it through those eyes.&#8221; Bill means my eyes. I know. That&#8217;s a smarty-pants way to avoid expenses and time and hassle to visit India. I get it, Bill. You want to visit India at my expense, especially when I&#8217;ll be a couple of thousand dollars poor and at least a dozen pound smaller (sicker) coming back from eating carbon monoxide and lead from taxicab exhausts and sidewalk chicken rolls. Nice thought, Bill <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Element Five. &#8212; &#8220;though I doubt the Indian office of tourism would be thrilled.&#8221; Now, that&#8217;s not fair. I was planning to write about the romantic-sensual-erotic side of India too in my weekly write-ups, including vivid descriptions of Konark and Khajuraho stone dems (google images) and Kolkata, Delhi and Mumbai diners. I don&#8217;t see any red flags raised by Indian tourism offices! Now, when I start writing about non-erotic subjects such as politics or poverty, that&#8217;s a different story. But I never plan to mix them up; in fact, I hope to make some little money selling my hot tourism stories, with no political <em>masala</em>, whatsoever.</p>
<p>I also plan to write more about the Indian women and how they have touched me &#8212; remember I told you that would be an ongoing story? Here&#8217;s your chance to get back on that mold. Promise it&#8217;s going to be exciting&#8230;at least fun. People tell me they liked the previous episodes.</p>
<p>So, that&#8217;s it for now. Tired and exhausted of finishing up long list of to-do&#8217;s before I leave. Excited and thrilled that I&#8217;m going back to a place I know so well and care so deeply about.</p>
<p>I hope you keep in touch with me on a regular basis. I plan to write, as I said before, at least on a weekly basis. On India. On the land of Tagore. On the land of Kabir. On the land of Sri Chaitanya, Buddha, Nanak, Tulsi Das and Mirabai.</p>
<p>I plan to write about the live reincarnations of the above legends too. You&#8217;ll know what I&#8217;m talking about.</p>
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<p><em>I&#8217;m leaving for India. Are you interested?</em></p>
<p>By the way, I never really told you and you never asked this simple question: interested in WHAT?</p>
<p>Tell me now, when you get a chance.</p>
<p><strong>Sincerely Writing,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Partha</strong></p>
<p>Brooklyn, New York</p>
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		<title>An Urgent Note to Occupy Wall Street</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m trying to articulate my bullet-points here very briefly; if you want, you can circulate them among the OWS leaders, and let me know if they need me in any future conversations. (1)  Obama was elected with bankers&#8217; money. He never did and never will come out strongly against the crooks who stole the U.S. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=504&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><strong>Apologies. This blog is not the place where I post hardcore political stuff. </strong></p>
<p>However, given the urgent nature of it, and given the fact that the next two months &#8212; including the holidays &#8212; would be difficult for me to keep in touch with you on a regular basis, I&#8217;m taking the liberty to digress from the &#8220;personal&#8221; and &#8220;apolitical&#8221; focus of my blog, to invite you to be a part of this critically important conversation &#8212; both here in the U.S. and worldwide.</p>
<p>In a subsequent post, I&#8217;ll try to analyze some relevant social and economic scenarios that might prove useful in this conversation.</p>
<p>I hope you take a couple of minutes to go through this note, and let me know your thoughts.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
<p><strong>Sincerely Writing,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Partha</strong></p>
<p>Brooklyn, New York</p>
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<p><strong>AN URGENT CALL to Occupy Wall Street Protesters</strong></p>
<p>By</p>
<p><strong>Partha Banerjee<br />
</strong></p>
<p>New peer-reviewed paper on political alliance building at <strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>http://ijh.cgpublisher.com/product/pub.26/prod.2020</strong></p>
<p>I’m writing my two little cents with hope that somebody at the OWS camp will notice it. The developments since November 15, when Bloomberg and NYPD violated the democratic rights of us the ordinary people to protest peacefully, have been greatly troubling. It is obvious &#8212; to me and a number of my friends who worked with me over the years as a grassroots political activist and peace and justice advocate – that with overt and covert support from the political establishment and corporate media, Wall Street crooks and their cronies are now preparing for major onslaughts on the movement. It is also quite likely that there will be violence traps to exploit.</p>
<p>Maybe, none of the above will happen; without a serious leadership with pragmatic goals and achievable benchmarks , the movement might fizzle. There are already unfortunate signs of it. Winter is coming, and street protests particularly in the Northeast and North U.S. will become increasingly unsustainable.</p>
<p>Upon this backdrop, this is my brief thought. This is what I urge you to do.</p>
<p>For heaven&#8217;s sake, find political support from the pro-people factions of Democratic and other political parties. Without that support, even sane Americans (and onlookers worldwide) will slowly get tired of the prolonged protests “without a clear goal” (I know you have solid demands), and both corporate America and elite-centrist Reps and Dems with their military and police and media will crush you.</p>
<p>Find that critical political support and find a clear time line to achieve certain goals. Have meetings. Talk about it. Call us.</p>
<p>Some of us believe that Democrats will eventually call. They&#8217;ll never call. Most of them do not want to lose their campaign contribution money anyways. Obama is one of them. It&#8217;s up to the protesters to show that they have political pragmatism and acumen; they need to show to the world that they know how to find political support from sane, influential people from all walks of life. The documentary <em>Inside Job</em> (Sony, 2010, directed by Charles Ferguson) has interviewed some of these people. Talk to them. Make up a winning strategy.</p>
<p>The other side is WAY too powerful. Plus they have New York Times and CNN, PBS, etc. on their side. (I’m not even talking about Fox or the Murdoch media empire and far right wing nuts like Glenn Beck or Rush Limbaugh.)</p>
<p><em>During a Facebook conversation, one committed OWS friend said this in response to the above: “Trying to work within this corrupted, benighted system is a losing proposition. The protesters are righteous and an important part of this process. Screw both parties. Time to change it all.”</em></p>
<p>I told her that it&#8217;s not so easy (i.e., to &#8220;screw both parties&#8221; and work without them).</p>
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<p><strong>I&#8217;m trying to articulate my bullet-points here very briefly; if you want, you can circulate them among the OWS leaders, and let me know if they need me in any future conversations.</strong></p>
<p>(1)  Obama was elected with bankers&#8217; money. He never did and never will come out strongly against the crooks who stole the U.S. economy. His so-called Wall Street reform has been laughably inadequate.</p>
<p>(2) Democratic Party establishment is no different than the Republican Party establishment when it comes to their campaign contribution money and allegiance; in fact, I always say that right wing is easier to read because they have no pretense.</p>
<p>(3) The financial sector, after Reagan, got the maximum boost and the stock market bubble happened during Bill Clinton. Remember Clinton had Greenspan as the Federal Reserve chairman, in spite of Greenspan&#8217;s well-known connections with Charles Keating of the S&amp;L Scandal.</p>
<p>(4) The biggest crooks such as Greenspan, Summers, Rubin et al. all completely deregulated and destroyed the economy with blessings from Clinton, W. Bush and now Obama; nothing changed (Greenspan has Ayn Rand ideological agenda; Summers has Harvard and Columbia Business School support. All of them made millions in these eras).</p>
<p>(5) Neither Republicans nor Democrats jailed a single individual crook such as Paulson or Fuld even though all their wrongdoings are established and beyond belief. (Senator Carl Levine of Michigan, a few-and-far-between Democrat, grilled Goldman Sachs operatives; Waxman grilled Fuld of Lehman Brothers who made a personal income of half a billion dollars off the now-bankrupt company. The hearings are available online. There are more such public exposés. Paulson would be a test case to expose now.)</p>
<p>(6) We are working under this system; therefore, there is NO reason to believe mainstream Democrats would come out to support OWS. Levine and Waxman hearings, although strong and commendable, failed to jail either the GS operatives or Fuld. Note the notable absence of the two big NY senators Hillary and Schumer from these events; I have not heard a single word of support for OWS from them.</p>
<p>(7) Work with labor unions, peace and justice groups, and civil and immigrant rights groups. This is the time to mend fences and build broad-based alliance of moderate working people and families &#8212; both from the so-called left and right (read my new paper for this model).</p>
<p>(8) Therefore, find other politicians who either lost elections in 2010 because of their pro-people positions or are traditionally known for their pro-people politics &#8212; there are many both at the national and state levels. Spitzer is one of them (he was set up because he worked against these Wall Street crooks); then there are cleaner images within and outside the Democratic Party.</p>
<p>(9) Work with Volcker and others who do not like the way Glass-Stegall was repealed by Rubin, Summers and Paulson. Work with Elizabeth Warren, et al. too.</p>
<p>(10) Find international support especially from Europe &#8212; a whole bunch of leaders &#8212; market capitalists &#8212; know how to run a capitalist economy without crooks. Iceland has already fixed its colossal problems that precipitated exactly the U.S. way just before October 2008. (Watch the documentary <em>Inside Job</em>: it begins with the Iceland episode.)</p>
<p>(11) Challenge Obama on these economic and political platforms, and also the major Democratic candidates running in 2012. Find shadow candidates who can put pressure on them whether or not they actually run.</p>
<p>(12) Find friends in corporate media who can put out the OWS platform. It does not matter if for various reasons, the street rallies dwindle; people will come back in various ways to rally across the U.S. and beyond if there is a serious action plan based on pragmatic politics.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll try to write more on this, but given the serious urgency of it, I wrote my five cents right now, hoping somebody somewhere will notice. I do hope the OWS leaders have time to read it.</p>
<p>BTW, it&#8217;s much better to have known evils in political power than hypocrites. The peace and justice movement both in the U.S. and worldwide got stronger during Dubya. Egypt and the entire Middle Eastern revolution keep happening because of that solidarity, not because of Obama&#8217;s Cairo speech.</p>
<p><strong>NOTE: </strong>If you’re more interested to know about my grassroots, empirical model on political alliance building that invites and includes the sane and moderate working people and families from both the so-called left and right – to disempower the elite center and marginalize the extreme right and left – read my new paper <strong>Second Circle: Middle Majority of the Working People</strong> (<em>International Journal of the Humanities</em>, October 2010). I’m including the link to the abstract here.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s at <strong>http://ijh.cgpublisher.com/product/pub.26/prod.2020</strong>.</p>
<p>Thank you and in solidarity,</p>
<p><strong>Partha Banerjee</strong></p>
<p>(Note: I work with labor unions professionally. However, I wrote the above in my personal capacity.)</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Solidarity: Wall Street, War Front Do you see any solidarity across the globe? Do you see any reasons for solidarity across the globe? Do you see any hope for solidarity across the globe? Can my poems help find it? Can your poems touch my poems? Can they meet and talk? ___________ (1) Iraq (Acknowledgement: Sourav [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=499&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Solidarity: Wall Street, War Front</strong></p>
<p>Do you see any solidarity across the globe? Do you see any reasons for solidarity across the globe? Do you see any hope for solidarity across the globe?</p>
<p>Can my poems help find it? Can your poems touch my poems? Can they meet and talk?</p>
<p>___________</p>
<p>(1)</p>
<p><strong>Iraq</strong></p>
<p>(Acknowledgement: Sourav Datta, Durgapur, West Bengal, India)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<div id="attachment_500" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://onefinalblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/fallujah-bombing.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-500" title="Iraq Bombing Victim" src="http://onefinalblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/fallujah-bombing.jpg?w=300&#038;h=224" alt="" width="300" height="224" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">A Collateral Damage</p></div>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>My home was in Iraq, did you know?</p>
<p>There, by the Baghdad factories</p>
<p>Ma, Dad and with a little sis</p>
<p>We had fun – laughs, songs and stories</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>First time they bombed our block</p>
<p>We shivered with radio round-the-clock</p>
<p>Dad&#8217;s bus got hit &#8216;n exploded</p>
<p>Sis cried out, &#8220;Mother, he&#8217;s dead!&#8221;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>My dear father&#8217;s grave, yes I kissed</p>
<p>Whispered in fear &#8212; eerie, awful</p>
<p>&#8220;Dear Dad, you come out now you can</p>
<p>Gone are those violencing beasts.&#8221;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>Again they now hit back my land</p>
<p>Hoping to shove democracy down</p>
<p>Experts on oil addiction</p>
<p>This time more pain, starvation</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Firm resolve, no fear of death</p>
<p>They&#8217;ll defeat Babylon empire?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve joined forces millions</p>
<p>How dare that Dubya Dumb and Blair?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m too a son of a great nation</p>
<p>Daddy&#8217;s on the Iraq battlefield</p>
<p>Peter, Becca, little Sam and I</p>
<p>We got it in our hearts &#8216;n eyes</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I screamed, &#8220;Dad, leave Iraq at once</p>
<p>If you kill but one-o their childs</p>
<p>Consider you killed one us yours</p>
<p>You now no mo&#8217; one-o our heroes.&#8221;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>____________</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>(2)<strong><br />
</strong></p>
<p><strong>Bangladesh Border, 1971</strong></p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>those small men and those small women</p>
<p>with small, tiny hopes and smaller desires</p>
<p>all their lives they weep in vain</p>
<p>and none cares &#8217;bout their futility tears</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&#8230;tears shed away slowly, lowly</p>
<p>like late-night dew drops, slowly, lowly</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>d’you ever listen to their subdued cry</p>
<p>o’er late-night wind the cries quiver</p>
<p>d’you hear them, tell me, why</p>
<p>d’you ever hear them, tell me, ever?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>____________</p>
<p>(3)</p>
<p><strong>Occupy Wall Street</strong></p>
<p><strong>(November 15, 2011)</strong></p>
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<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p>They’re gone now</p>
<p>But they shall be back.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>This is the last battle.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>They know.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Even New York Times</p>
<p>Can’t stop them.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>###</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Sincerely Writing,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Partha</strong></p>
<p>Brooklyn, New York</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[–Tick Tock…Strike Two– I hope you did not un-like what I had to say yesterday about my distant-uncle Death. I mean, I know you could not particularly like it. But could you really un-like it? Read the previous episode if you haven&#8217;t. My infamous Lord Yama Uncle decided that it was time to show us [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=486&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><strong><a title="Death...Tick Tock Time Bomb (and Lord Yama Uncle)" href="http://onefinalblog.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/death-tick-tock-time-bomb/" target="_blank">I hope you did not un-like what I had to say yesterday about my distant-uncle Death</a>. I mean, I know you could not particularly like it. But could you really un-like it?</strong></p>
<p><a title="Death...Tick Tock Time Bomb (and Lord Yama Uncle)" href="http://onefinalblog.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/death-tick-tock-time-bomb/" target="_blank">Read the previous episode if you haven&#8217;t.</a> My infamous Lord Yama Uncle decided that it was time to show us how long he could stick around with us&#8230;uninvited, unwelcome, dis-un-disliked.</p>
<p>In Ma&#8217;s painful cancer death at the age of forty-two, he saw there was a gold mine to mine in this poor, God-forsaken, North Calcutta mezzanine household. He grinned, and he grimaced, and he growled.</p>
<p>And then he howled.</p>
<p>That evening, Ma came out of her home one last time. I didn’t cry, and I’m positive father didn’t either; but everybody else did. Poorna, my sister (whose Tagore songs you&#8217;ve perhaps heard here on my blog), wept hard, and Sova, my aunt, cried out loud. Kakima, our next-door neighbor, wept too. All our previous domestic maids over the years, who came to see Ma one last time, inconsolably sobbed. Slowly, with extreme care, we carried Ma and put her on the flower-adorned cot sitting on the earthen alley. <em>“Bolo Hari, Hari Bol,”</em> they all chanted out Lord Vishnu’s name in a familiar way, one I had heard numerous times in Calcutta ever since I remembered. Four of us hoisted the four corners of the cot up on our shoulders now cushioned with a cotton towel. In a few moments, all the male members of the family and friends, in the midst of the loud and subdued cries, set out on the final procession on foot to the Ganges, about five miles away to the West side of the city.</p>
<p>I believe about a hundred people came along with us.</p>
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<p><strong>But Subrato, my best friend didn&#8217;t show;</strong> he&#8217;d later said he didn&#8217;t because he couldn&#8217;t take it; my mother&#8217;s death was too much pain for him to bear. He came from a solvent family with both parents working and a reasonably affluent lifestyle. He was a very bright student, yet a very weak man – so much so that many years later, when his father suddenly died, he couldn’t take it either, and in a matter of days, during the obligatory bereavement period, he walked out of his house in his mourning garb leaving a mother, a sister, a wife and two young sons behind, and stood on the tracks of a speeding commuter train. He was killed instantly.</p>
<p>Somebody emailed us here in New York about his violent death. Not an agreeable way to deal with the sudden death of your best friend.</p>
<p>But much before that, in quick succession of Ma’s death, came small and big bolts from the blue. Uncle Yama had warned me long ago that I was going to see him frequently once I grew up. Now I knew I had grown up.</p>
<p>Just the next Sunday, about the same time in the evening, <em>Jethu</em>, father’s oldest brother who lived only walks away, died of a prolonged oral cancer. A chain smoker, he had been suffering for nearly two years, and got the disease way before Ma fell sick; in fact, it was Ma who first told me that Jethu got cancer. This is a man who lived with us for years before finding his own apartment, played the flute sitting on our narrow veranda in the evening, and took him out on leisurely spring-night tram rides. He bought me my first (and last) pair of cricket gloves.</p>
<p>In less than a year, my oldest maternal uncle Bishwanath died of a stroke; he couldn’t handle the enormous financial mess he got himself in by playing the Indian stock market, got bankrupt, and left four small children and a widow behind. I went to see him in his final hours at the Calcutta Medical College emergency. I remember he lay on a narrow bed in a very small room, eyes closed, and his upper body was all hooked up with pipes, monitors and tubes; his mouth was wide open, and he was fiercely and noisily gasping for breath like a big fish out of water. I saw his chest pumping like a balloon inhaling and exhaling air; I knew just by looking at his terrible suffering that he was not going to make it. This is an uncle who was a soft-nature man, a singer. He was a champion carrom player too. What <em>niyati</em> Lord Yama had set aside for him!</p>
<p>Two years later, when the men were not home, my middle maternal uncle Madhu’s wife Amita – a schizophrenic woman who angrily refused any basic medical help – screamed about her poverty and distress, poured kerosene on her body, and lighted herself up. Then, she ran fiercely up and down the narrow, dark, dingy alley next to their bedroom, shrieked violently in extreme fear and pain, tried to tear off her burning sari and blouse, and my poor grandmother and Sova ran back and forth to rescue her and away, and cried out and begged to everyone for help. In half hour, in front of practically all the helplessly onlooking residents of their neighborhood who did all they could to save her including a last-ditch attempt to blanket out the fire, a charcoal-black Amita got a heart attack, and dropped dead.</p>
<p>Madhu and Amita had been married for only two years, and she left a six-month old child behind. Sova now became the mother of that child.</p>
<p><strong>And then the final blow came five years after Ma&#8217;s death, </strong>just two weeks before I was scheduled to take my TOEFL to come to study in the U.S., when on a Friday Christmas-eve night, Buddha, an Indira Gandhi Congress rising star, was found in his State Electricity Board office room in Central Calcutta, shot in the head to death.</p>
<p>The gun was never found. The assassins were never found either. In India, law enforcement and administration do not work for you unless you can force or bribe them. We could not force or bribe them: we were too poor and powerless to do it.</p>
<p>To me, Buddha was more like a big brother than an uncle, just like Sova was always more like a big sister than an aunt; when I was very young, I saw Buddha playing alley marble, street football and strike-day cricket; and I saw Sova playing jump rope, hide and seek and rhyme games with her teen friends. I accompanied them to their simple, frugal but fun winter picnics – on rooftops and at school compounds. I saw Buddha’s ambitious ascent, slowly assuming leadership in his friends’ circle and then in politics. I went to hear his speeches at political rallies; I went to hear him recite Tagore and Sukanto poetry at cultural events. And I unknowingly emulated him in my own political and cultural performances. I helped him write New Year greetings cards he’d send out to numerous friends and followers. I followed him on, and I followed him often.</p>
<p>Buddha’s death was a huge blow to us – our entire family. Even the entire neighborhood of that long, narrow alley behind the vegetable and fish market was completely shocked and frozen. The final ray of hope for my poor grandmother was gone.</p>
<p>It was as if as soon as Ma left, the force of love that held the family together melted away, and everything fell apart. And my grandmother had to go through it all, one tragedy at a time.</p>
<p>Before my grandma died, she had lost five children.</p>
<p>###</p>
<p>Enough for now. (By the way, this is all from my memoir I&#8217;m slowly putting together. Any takers? Let me know.)</p>
<p>You might ask, why in the world am I writing about it, especially when it is so personal and so painful? Am I trying to self-inflict pain into those covered-over wounds?</p>
<p>No. Seriously. I&#8217;m not trying to draw your sympathy and consolation &#8212; believe me. It&#8217;s been quite a while. I&#8217;m out of it&#8230;you know&#8230;sorta. You feel bad? Thank you. I appreciate. But that&#8217;s about it.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m telling you these stories because this is the India that you probably do not know or hear about, especially in today&#8217;s media glitz and superpower blitz. I know for sure many of you did not hear these stories from someone like me who actually lived them.</p>
<p>Lord Uncle Yama has been playing his cunning death games on us &#8212; the poor and the vulnerable in that little corner of the world &#8212; for eternity.</p>
<p>I feel I&#8217;m still a small pawn in his game.</p>
<p>(come back for more, if you still not completely un-like it.)</p>
<p><strong>Sincerely Writing,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Partha</strong></p>
<p>Brooklyn, New York</p>
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		<title>Death&#8230;the Tick Tock Time Bomb</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8211;Tick Tock&#8230;Strike One&#8211; I have seen death too many times in my life. He&#8217;s been with me all along. Honestly. Really. Nothin&#8217; to brag about. But it&#8217;s true. I know Lord Yama, the god of death, all too well. I can&#8217;t say I like him a lot. But because I&#8217;ve accepted the fact that I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=474&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>&#8211;Tick Tock&#8230;Strike One&#8211;</p>
<p><strong>I have seen death too many times in my life. He&#8217;s been with me all along.</strong></p>
<p>Honestly. Really. Nothin&#8217; to brag about. But it&#8217;s true.</p>
<p>I know Lord Yama, the god of death, all too well. I can&#8217;t say I like him a lot. But because I&#8217;ve accepted the fact that I can never get rid of him, I have resigned to un-dislike him. Or, is it dis-unlike him?</p>
<p>Anyways.</p>
<p>You see, it&#8217;s not easy to explain. This guy is like the distant uncle from the village who&#8217;d show up at least once a year, totally uninvited, and wouldn&#8217;t mind our very obvious unwelcoming gestures&#8230;until he decided to travel somewhere else, to be someone else&#8217;s guest. Some years, he&#8217;d show up even more than once a year. Gosh&#8230;really annoying!</p>
<p>What can I say: he&#8217;s always been quite whimsical.</p>
<p>When I was a child, I didn&#8217;t know him all that well. Growing up, I heard strange tales about him&#8230;where he lives&#8230;what he does&#8230;where he goes&#8230;how he makes a living, and all. I never paid close attention to those tales. I never believed I had to. I was least bothered.</p>
<p>Slowly but surely though, his presence became matter of factly. Then, one day, he volunteered to introduce himself. I saw his face up close when I was only in sixth grade. He said to me, &#8220;Hello kid&#8230;I am your Lord Yama Uncle.&#8221; He said, &#8220;Pleased to meet you.&#8221;</p>
<p>I was speechless.</p>
<p>He said to me, &#8220;You don&#8217;t look very happy meeting me, do you, kid? That&#8217;s okay. I&#8217;m leaving you now for a while. But you&#8217;ll see me again, don&#8217;t worry. I&#8217;ll be back.&#8221; And just before he left, he grinned, uncannily, and said, &#8220;You&#8217;ll see me over and over again. You better know me well, kid. Or, you&#8217;re gonna be miserable.&#8221;</p>
<p>He was right. A few years went by.</p>
<p>When I just got into our M.Sc. graduate program (they call it post-graduate over there&#8230;like&#8230;after graduation) at the University of Calcutta, Uncle Yama for some reason decided he&#8217;d now be our guest for a quite a while. Maybe, he didn&#8217;t have no other place to visit. Maybe, his village had a drought and he must eat and sleep at somebody else&#8217;s house. Maybe, he realized he didn&#8217;t see us for a long while and started missing us too much. So, one early summer evening, around seven thirty, he showed up and knocked at our mezzanine apartment door.</p>
<p>In fact, he banged hard. He wouldn&#8217;t wait no more.</p>
<p>Ma was dying of cancer. Uncle Yama took her first&#8230;and left&#8230;</p>
<p>He left&#8230;but only for a short while. In Ma&#8217;s death, he&#8217;d struck a gold mine. He saw with his unearthly, uncanny eyes (see his profile photo above) that this was a place where he could come back now&#8230;quite often&#8230;over and over again&#8230;uninvited&#8230;and these people wouldn&#8217;t say no to him&#8230;couldn&#8217;t say no to him.</p>
<p>He knew we were too good and too powerless to dis-un-dislike him.</p>
<p>[...]</p>
<p>(to be continued. please come back.)</p>
<p><strong>Sincerely Writing,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Partha</strong></p>
<p>Brooklyn, New York</p>
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		<title>Rivertalk: the Way Women Touch me</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m going to continue talking about the women in my life. On this post, I&#8217;m going to talk about the way women touch me&#8230;have touched me. This is the third episode: I named it Rivertalk. If you&#8217;re interested about the first two episodes &#8212; Foretalk and Flowertalk &#8212; just click on these links. You&#8217;ll get [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=onefinalblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=26366390&amp;post=459&amp;subd=onefinalblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><strong>I&#8217;m going to continue talking about the women in my life.</strong></p>
<p>On this post, I&#8217;m going to talk about the way women touch me&#8230;have touched me. This is the third episode: I named it Rivertalk.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re interested about the first two episodes &#8212; <a title="Foretalk" href="http://onefinalblog.wordpress.com/2011/09/23/the-way-women-touch-me/" target="_blank">Foretalk</a> and <a title="Flowertalk" href="http://onefinalblog.wordpress.com/2011/09/25/the-way-women-touch-me-its-flowertalk/" target="_blank">Flowertalk</a> &#8212; just click on these links. You&#8217;ll get a more comprehensive picture of my relationship with my women in my life. I hope to write a couple of more episodes in the coming days. I hope that you come back to read more. In fact, I implore that you do.</p>
<p>Bhagirathi, Jamuna and Saraswati are three major rivers in the Hindu holy land that descended from the Himalayas, flew through the North Indian heartland, met at a confluence called Prayag near the bustling city of Allahabad, and then flew their own separate ways all the way through Bihar, West Bengal, Bangladesh and Assam before dissolving into the Bay of Bengal. Incidentally, Saraswati is now non-existent: there are underground traces of that once-mighty river at the Lord Krishna-glorified Prayag confluence. Bhagirathi is also known as the mighty, holy river Ganga or Ganges. The Hindu pilgrimage of Varanasi or Benaras is of course famous for its temples and picturesque steps on its riverbanks.</p>
<p>Bhagirathi, Jamuna and Saraswati, in my present story, are three women who worked as domestic helpers at my Calcutta household for eons. In Bengal and in India, domestic helpers are often part of the family; for pittance, they work for the family almost for their entire lives, and practically consider the employer family as their own. I don&#8217;t know how they actually do it, considering they have their own families to take care of, and often those families are so poor and helpless that these women&#8217;s paltry wages are their only source of income. Often, they are refugees of war, partition and communal riots or other such disasters: in India and Bengal, we don&#8217;t have any lack of them.</p>
<p>Plus, they do manual labor for both families, killing themselves. Yet, they never forget to smile, never forget to greet you, and never ask for more than what they&#8217;re given. More often than not, they are grossly underpaid and grossly overworked.</p>
<p>Bengal and India&#8217;s urban middle-class households &#8212; all one billion of them &#8212; are run on their shoulders and by their overworked palms. Bhagirathi and Jamuna, as you can see in the picture above, are still working for my family back there in Calcutta. As you can see, Jamuna the woman doing dishes on the dingy kitchen floor now has a granddaughter who is happily accompanying her grandma to our place. There is every likelihood that in course of time, she will take her grandma&#8217;s place in our family.</p>
<p>They are somewhat lucky, in spite of their lifelong misfortune, that they&#8217;re working for us &#8212; an employer family with some humanity and kindness. In times of emergencies and major disasters, we try to do our best to help them. There are many other &#8212; in fact, numerous &#8212; maids who are not so lucky: poor young girls have a high risk of being sexually violated (at least constantly looked down upon as sexual objects), and young boy servants have even a greater risk of being verbally and physically abused. In the event of any possible theft in the family &#8212; small or big &#8212; the young boy servant would take the initial brutal beating, both by members of the household and also by the police. In India, it&#8217;s commonplace. Nobody even talks about it.</p>
<p>In case of our Bhagirathi and our Jamuna, they flow relentlessly, smoothly, and without saying a word. They wake up at the crack of dawn, walk in the dark over to our house, and start doing their chores without waiting for any instructions. Jamuna does the dishes piled up from the night before; Bhagirathi makes tea, goes to the local market to do daily groceries and pick up the rationed milk bottles. Then, she starts cooking. Jamuna meanwhile sweeps and mops the living room and bedroom floors.</p>
<p>They leave when they&#8217;re finished with their morning chores, return to their own families, and perhaps replicate all of the above &#8212; of course, in a scaled-down way for they simply could not afford it like we do. Then they come back again to do an afternoon and evening version of the morning routine, only to leave at eight or nine at night, after we&#8217;re finished with our dinner and ready to go to bed with our favorite novel or music. Facebook enthusiasts would lift their legs on the chair against the computer table while the boy or the maid keeps sweeping the floor underneath. The fun online discussions and chats would not disturb the worlds of either parties.</p>
<p>Saraswati worked with us for a few years when my mother died. It was a time when our home was more disorganized than a refugee colony. We didn&#8217;t know who&#8217;d cook, who&#8217;d clean, and whether or not there would be food on the table the way it did uninterrupted when my mother was around. It was a very difficult time &#8212; both physically and emotionally. Saraswati came to help us at that time; we also had a young boy named Kanai who was a skilled cook at the age of thirteen. He came from some drought-stricken village in south Bengal, and we became good friends. Saraswati, meanwhile, disappeared just like the once-active river. One could find her trace only deep underground &#8212; if you know how to dig deep into your memory.</p>
<p>Surprisingly, these domestic helpers somehow always had a lot of affection for me. For that reason only, I can never forget them. I&#8217;ll come back and talk about them a bit more. I hope you come back too.</p>
<p><strong>Sincerely Writing,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Partha</strong></p>
<p>Brooklyn, New York</p>
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